In a small bowl, melt the butter and set aside to cool down a little.
Preheat the oven to 350 degrees F and spray (or grease) an 8-9 inch loaf pan with non-stick baking spray.
In a large mixing bowl, add the flour, baking powder, salt and sugar, then whisk well and set aside.
In a medium-sized mixing bowl, add the melted (but not hot) butter, oil, room temperature sour cream, room temperature milk, room temperature eggs and vanilla extract and whisk well.
Make a well in the center of the dry ingredients and pour the liquid ingredients into that well.
Mix by hand with a large spoon or silicone spatula until well combined. Once everything is combined well, stop mixing. Mixing too long will make the loaf cake very dense and rubbery.
Take out about 1 ¼ cups of the batter and place in another bowl. (You can just use the bowl that contained the liquid mixture.)
To this mixture, add the cocoa powder and the hot coffee (or water) and stir until well combined. Remember to only stir until well combined as stirring too much will cause the cake to become too dense.
To the prepared loaf pan, add about ½ cup of the vanilla batter and spread smooth across the bottom of the pan. Add the chocolate batter and the vanilla batter to the loaf pan alternately, using a tablespoon until all of the batter has been added to the loaf pan. Don't worry about doing this perfectly.
Once all the batter has been added to the pan, take a knife and run it through the batter to swirl both batters together. Be careful not to scrape the bottom of the pan and to only swirl several times. Swirling too much will completely mix the batters together and the loaf cake won't have that marble look.
Bake the loaf cake approximately 45-55 minutes. Ovens vary so start checking a little early. A toothpick inserted into the middle will come out either clean or with a few moist crumbs on it when it's ready to come out of the oven. Try not to over bake or the cake will turn out dry.
Set the cake on a cooling rack for about 15 minutes, then turn the cake out of the pan and let cool completely on a cooling rack before adding the glaze.